Matthew 16:26 "For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul?" We get so comfortable in our own little worlds- the little world we create for ourselves with all of our comfort foods and comfort things- that when we have trying times our just trite annoyances we raise our voices to God: "Do you love me?". Perhaps He is blessing you with these moments. Because He loves you He doesn't want you to lose your soul.